I have endometriosis and I can't tell you how much I appreciate seeing information about it. My hope is that someone will see themselves in my story and be able to get a diagnosis much sooner than I was.
From the time that my menstrual cycle started I was in horrible pain each month. I remember in junior high school having to run out of classrooms because my heavy flow would soak through a tampon and a pad before class was over and teachers would not let us use the bathroom midway through class. The pain seemed to be worse when it was hot out and I would lay on the floor of the basement for hours at a time because it was just too painful to move. Because my cramping also came with diarrhea I had a number of tests on my upper and lower GI system. When the doctors didn't find anything they told my parents I was a hypochondriac. No one considered that I may have gynecological issues.
During college I finally purchased health insurance and began the journey of finding out what was wrong. Eventually I had laparoscopic surgery and was diagnosed with endo. I saw more than a dozen doctors during this time. I was in pain and scared. I got married just before my diagnosis and as my health deteriorated so did my marriage. My husband felt "duped" by marrying a healthy, energetic person who was now debilitated by pain. I tried everything: having nerves in my presacral area severed, acupuncture, massage, biofeedback, physical therapy etc. Eventually my marriage ended and I feel it was a direct result of the endo.
I am now happily remarried and mom of a precious little girl and I still struggle with endo. My period started today and to say that I am petrified of the pain I will be feeling over the next three days (despite narcotics) is not an exaggeration. I was able to give birth to my daughter without pain medication because labor actually hurt less than my monthly period. I pray that my little girl will not grow up to have endo and that research will save future generations from this pain. I find it very sad that my great grandmother and I have dealt with the same disease and that there was not much more that could be done for me in comparison to what was done for her when she was my age.
My advice to someone with endo is this: find a doctor you can trust who respects you, follow every path you can to manage your pain, focus on the positives in your life and be thankful you have been blessed with the gift of life.
Thank you for sharing your story, Stacy!! Sharing our stories helps educate the public and make fellow patients feel less alone!
MARCH BLOGGING MADNESS FOR ENDOMETRIOSIS AWARENESS!!!!
This article was posted by Jeanne via "Jeanne's Endo Blog" at www.endendoat.blogspot.com.
